"Now what"

Singer Paul Simon, Chef Grant Achetz, Diva Celine Dion (and maybe you) have faced the loss of hearing, tasting, bodily control, and hundreds of other challenges beyond our prediction. We all know someone who woke up one morning fully alive and by evening was a different person. Some resign themselves to their fate while others take a different approach. There is a Japanese therapist who has a three-sided small pyramid in his office. On one side it is written “Poor Me” on a second side is written “Those Bad People” and on the third side it is written “So what am I going to do now?” When you come for therapy, he hands you the pyramid and says, “So what do you want to talk about today?” You can certainly talk about any side of the pyramid you want but ultimately that third side is staring you in the face.